Its Okay!

Seriously I dont know how everyone thinks moms should be; Mother Theresea, Mother of the Year, One Hot Mama and everything else all at the same time. Strive as I may I will NEVER be One Hot MaMa again mainly because I have had two children. Oh yea I can rock a pair of jeans if I worked out but my stomach and breast are ruined, because I got "too big" while pregnant and I breastfed for "too long & not enough on each side". My husband still enjoys me in every way, and loves that I have given him two beautiful children. I hate how all these moms are on pinterest, at the gym, and scolding themselves for the nasty thoughts they have or the bad words they may have said. Honestly if your children are happy, your significant other is happy and you are happy with yourself then who the hell cares what any one else thinks. Even as I say this, in my head Im screaming I do!!! I care what others think I want them to see me as an awesome mom, I want my husband to get turned on the second I walk into the room, and I want to set a saint like example for everyone around me. But if Im honest with myself Im a smart ass, some times lazy, too busy to put on makeup, chasing kids around kind of woman. I dont have the time to be a saint, sign up for awards or even put on some toxic stuff that's just going to make me look worse in the end. Try as I may I will never be how society wants me to be, but guess what THATS OKAY! I want you to tell yourself, " its okay to just be me and try to be the best i can be to my own standards." If you are happy with you, honestly, then why strive to be something or someone, something or someone else wants you to be? Im trying so hard to be the best mother I can be and I get down on myself when I see another mother being better than me. I have to remind myself she's have a mother of year award, Moment. They dont last for forever but we must cherish them and bask in their glow as well as stand proud for those moms that are trying hard to have them. There are sooo many "mothers and fathers" acting the part one second and out partying the next, that dont even care about their children. So kudos to you for getting out of bed and fixing breakfast before having your coffee, and then drinking it cold. Kudos to you for wearing your yoga pants and your baggy shirt, and your "mom pony tail." It shows you are willing to sacrifice everything for others above and before yourself, and that is beautiful and incredibly sexy and very saint like! Good job!

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